Pitching our love against their hate

I don't believe in "love is love", because that leaves out the ethical sluts, the trans people, the ones who do not fight for a right to love, but a right to be.

We shouldn't aim to duplicate the cishet lifestyle; it if is what happens, it's good, but it doesn't have to be our final goal. After all, whatever Tolstoy said, not all happy families are alike.